Don't Make Me Wait Too Long Barry White Top Barry White Lyrics You're The First Oh What A Night For Dancing The Secret Garden Let The Music Play Never Never Gonna Give You Up Whatever We Had We Had You're The First, The Last, My Everything Let Me Live My Life Lovin' You Babe What Am I Gonna Do With You I'm Qualified To Satisfy You So why do you make me wait so long So long for your love Why do I have to wait so long So long for your love What keeps holding you What keeps holding you up, oh no Why do I have to wait so long So long for your love Submit Corrections. They were all people who learned their success in life was directly proportionate to their intimacy and dependency upon God. If waiting outside the office for lunch, go by yourself. Waiting is a part of life and one of God’s tools for developing people. Making you wait is a common social power move in both business and dating. You’re communicating here that because of them everyone is being inconvenienced and you’re not afraid of highlighting it. If they don’t do it, you have to shoulder the whole burden of channeling the relationship in that direction. You are looking for a fair and balanced relationship. So there are many reasons why letting him wait to sleep with you is good. ;) 0 0. During this time the Lord assured me that one day we would own a home of our own. When you do that, people will feel you’re a man of high value and will feel like idiots they tried to play you now that you’re so welcoming. Instead of just following the order you add that you repeat… Because it’s important for them to know, not because they just told you. It hurts to say this, but it’s often true. 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She leads towards the table first and thus forcing him to follow. Notice: “this is important for you to know so I’ll repeat” is a great way to reduce your compliance to them. Here are five reasons why God makes you wait. Put everything you’ve got into the dot you’ve chosen. Waiting transformed the life of Moses and it does the same for you and I. You don’t necessarily want to be mean, but you’re not going to sit at a restaurant table fidgeting around. He has your number, your Facebook, your Instagram, your e-mail etc. So, Were Mary and Joseph Actually Refugees? 10 years ago. Maybe they were honestly busy, or maybe it’s just a power move. If it’s anything you have to leave the house for, always confirm place and time on the morning of the schedule meeting. But you’ll have an easier time hearing the lowest part of the range.8 The reason you can feel low sounds, like low bass notes in music, is that the wavelength is so long that it actually takes 1/20th of a second for a full wave to pass your body (hence 20 Hz).3 4. “Plan B” is anything allowing you not to waste your time if you have to wait. If you did not ask the question until some later time, like the next day you feel guilty about making him wait and so you ask about this, you would use the past tense, "How long did you wait… You use the present continuous tense because his wait just ended at the time you asked the question. etc. Letting them come to you and greet you first instead is a very easy way of restoring some power balance. We tend to think the bigger things in life are finances and possessions, while God thinks influencing and changing people is more important. This is possible for a primary care doctor or a specialist you see on a regular basis for a long-term or chronic condition. Anyone who says they don't play the texting game is lying. Capitol Garage Cafe: Meh, why did you make me wait so long? You wait so long, you wait so long You wait so long, you wait so long It's a coffee-stained earth every time it happens Liven up honey, it ain't that bad Any afterthought rose to recognition Like every other coffin that I had And your Buick broke down in Winnemucca Fall to your knees and you pray to the lord Then you take up hope at the politicians It seems He always has a plan and a purpose for everything. If you’re dealing with people who repeatedly disrespect your time or who don’t do anything to excuse their behavior, then it’s time to consider appropriate alternatives. They might say “sorry I was very busy”. If you are at a meeting, start the meeting without them. You know the one. Notice Ashton Kutcher doesn’t say anything when his date arrives late and is rather cold and standoffish (turns his head the other way, looks ahead in the space). If you were talking to someone, finish the sentence or keep talking for a little bit before you turn around to say hi: you will communicate that the party who respected your time and presence gets more respect than the party who let you wait. A further step below that, here are a couple of nice ways to nudge them towards an apology while at the same time showing some warmth: “Hi, pleasure meeting you, I was thinking something happened”, “Hi, good to see you, I was getting worried everything was OK”. Maybe this is what the scripture means when it says we have a friend that sticks closer than a brother (Proverbs 18:24). But there you are, waiting for them. Why Do You Have to Make Me Wait So Long, an album by Sleepy Gonzales on Spotify. If we can’t wait for God to do a small thing, we certainly can’t wait for something bigger. For example, you could look at your watch when they enter the room. But how long to wait between the next dates? DO NOT under any circumstances make up excuses in your head for the man and decide to make the first move. Stream ad-free or purchase CD's and MP3s now on Amazon.com. If we aren’t careful, we’ll think He’s uncaring or mad at us. And it determines how much they are going to respect you (or not going to respect you). Please only Christian answers God has made me wait so long for everything that I want. Bring anything with you that allows you to turn any downtime into productive time -including waiting for some ahole to play his games-. Some of the most intimate relationships we have in our lives are because a friend stood in the trenches with us during the heat of the battle. He loves all three aspects, and believes that to be effective at teaching social strategies, the three must go together. The Scriptures say He is slow at going about things. Relevance? That’s the high-value man burden. Anonymous. For many of them it was a matter of life and death. So we pursue him to see if he will go along. I’ve always believed God is just as interested in the journey as he is the destination. Kabhib did great when he pressed to start the conference on time. If he doesn’t call, wait. It lowers your value and raise the value of the person making you wait. It’s also a bad operant conditioning strategy as now everyone will think it’s OK to come late. I am certain that you have experienced times like these, and know that the temptation in such times is to despair and to demand, to grow angry and impatient. AND… 2. But once you restore the balance, you stop pushing. Loudness People who are inconveniencing you should be volunteering apologies for the delay. Is It Possible to Care About Every Issue? This is just a video stating where where am in the application process. So why does he wait so long to contact you? Margitu A. shared a photo on Instagram: “Why you make me wait so long? Don’t let the late ahole take away your power, but comply because you want to instead. It never fails – you go to the emergency room because you’re dying, and you end up sitting and waiting while people who are dying faster (apparently) get called back to see the doctor before you. Human relationships can be seen as exchanges. As a matter of fact, once you achieve balance, you turn 360 degrees and make them feel good they helped you balance the relationship. Most of us have good intentions, but a lot of what we want to accomplish is an attempt to make a name for ourselves or for our own egos. If they enter the room or join you pretending nothing happened, they are disrespecting you. Check out Why Do You Have to Make Me Wait So Long by Sleepy Gonzales on Amazon Music. For example, if they ask where they can sit, keep talking and point to an empty chair. 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However, sometimes it could be due to his work schedule—traveling a great deal, but it would be nice to know this when he gets your phone number. For example, I always have noise-canceling earphones with a new audiobook in my phone, so worst case scenario I imbibe knowledge :). If they don’t, it’s only fair you nudge them towards it. Or they might try to interrupt your speech with some made up stuff like “sorry I was busy, where can I sit”. You said, "Yes, just tell me when" Don't make me wait too long, ooh no Don't make me wait too long (help me, baby) Don't make me wait too long First you're here, then you're gone It's that same old heartbreak story Thought that you'd be in my life For more than just one night But you say you got to leave It destroys me, boy, it hurts me Tell me what did I do wrong For you to leave me all alone? People who don’t have good motives won’t wait long because they’re not interested in the commitment it takes to see something through. Lucio's approach combines science, critical analysis, and a continuous quest for first-hand experience. In this case, don’t go overboard with the above tips. Why are you making me wait so long? Don’t complain, but smile. Waiting has a way of rubbing off the rough edges of our lives. Conversation. If you’re a man and we’re talking about dating, always choose a location near your place: it’s best for both. When shopping in the Nike SNKRS App or on Nike.com, you may receive a message that says, “You’re in line,” or, “Waiting for your turn.” This is because we process orders on a first-come-first serve basis, and we want to make sure the item you want is still available after we've processed the orders of people ahead of you. When he was given a second chance he opted to do it God’s way and in God’s time. Then follow each and every step from above and quickly end the relationship if they don’t take major steps to restore the balance. When Jesus finally shows up, He is accused of taking too long. We tend to appreciate things the longer we have to wait for them. That’s positive operant conditioning right there. These moments don’t always last that long, so sink your teeth in. In this case seeing each other twice a week is a good option. You need to be lovingly clear and let him know what that timeline is so that he can make his own decisions. If you are behind a laptop screen or if you were reading an ebook, don’t raise your head until they say something. What you do when someone makes you wait determines what kind of relationship you are going to have. :) Source(s): My head? Eric is a pastor, college professor and practical theologian. Let them speak first, and then slowly raise your head and slowly pack. We and our partners use cookies to personalize your experience, to show you ads based on your interests, and for measurement and analytics purposes. If it’s a meeting with a friend, meeting middle way or alternating between easy for you and easy for him is fair. WTF dude… I’ve been waiting here for one hour. So far I've only gotten like 1/10 of the things and even so, I've waited so long for that 1/10. It took a few years to see this happen, but when the day finally came, we could hardly contain ourselves. 1.3K likes. If all else fail, call someone you had to call or call someone you didn’t have to call just to say hi. Don’t dignify their excuse or you are giving them power back. With fresher acquaintances or with a job interviewer or boss, you want to be more indirect. If not, all the biblical accounts would only include the feel good parts and not the good, the bad and the ugly of the times of waiting. Everyone else has already heard it so I’ll be brief”. Do Our Bodies Matter to Our Spiritual Lives? If you can’t avoid answering, add a little zinger in there. He made some of the greatest men of faith wait. Believe me, if he wants to contact you he will find a way. So if you are sitting at a diner table, order. In studying the lives of these great people, I’ve discovered 5 reasons God makes us wait: 1. Because the wait has produced anticipation. Now remember, there are exceptions: if you need something from them, then you should make it easy for them and meet as close to them as possible. God always has good reasons for making us wait. Perhaps you know the feeling of waiting for your phone to charge? For them, a relationship with God wasn’t a get rich quick scheme. Every weekday, get RELEVANT's top five articles delivered to your inbox! Trust me, you don’t want to be the lady whose only allure is sex. He studies psychology, persuasion, social strategies, and anything related to people and power dynamics. Most people don’t like to wait. Alright, we know the optimal time span between the 1st and the 2nd date. This mindset often carries over into our spiritual lives with us rushing to the next big thing. Unfortunately for everyone, dating doesn’t follow 2019 protocols. Even if you’re at a job interview and theoretically you want the position more than they need another candidate, there’s no excuse for playing power games. Anonymous. Our problem is our perspective is usually wrong. Why should we have to wait and worry if he will call? We are always in a rush to get to the next place or the next thing. If it’s an otherwise balanced relationship and they still often let you wait, start demanding investment back to be on an equal footing and if they refuse to stop meeting them on their terms. They’re too interested in short-term gains or success. 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Waiting during the difficult times developed their relationship with God. There are times in the Christian’s life where we wait upon God, where we wait for relief from some kind of afflication, and where we wait for a long time for God to answer prayer. 1 talking about this. Instead, say it’s OK, but say so very nonchalantly and then move on. Making you wait is a common social power move in both business and dating. Look at the clip below. Something like: “Yes, this is important for you to know so I’ll repeat. If you greet him first as soon as he arrives, you look like a dog waiting for the owner. This is the basic mindset of assertiveness. Have you had similar problems with getting your money back? We chose Phil’s idea from the ‘Your ideas’ section on the website, make sure you share your ideas too. It shows that the person letting you wait: Of course, you are not cool with any of those implications, so let’s see how you restore some power balance. 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